Last year I was working with an amazing lady who had her own business in Financial Services. She was working every hour god sent to meet the needs of her many clients leaving her exhausted, resentful and a slave to the business that was supposed to give her freedom.
Freedom to spend time with her children, who were nearly grown up and who she rarely saw.
Freedom to enjoy her husband, who she’d not been on a night away with since before the children were born.
Freedom to pick and choose her work hours, which she never did because she let the clients run her diary.
It was no wonder she’d fallen out of love with the business and it was starting to impact on how she felt about herself.
Working together over 10 sessions the results were incredible.
She increased her client work and yet reduced her working hours. She went on several mini breaks with her husband and booked their first holiday alone. Plus she allowed herself to accept the help he was constantly offering her having refused it for years. She improved her relationship with her children and spent more quality time with them, as well as working with them to encourage them to contribute to the family home.
Her lightbulb moment was that she wasn’t leading her organisation it was leading her.